Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Worn out Welcome

When you are a guest in someone's house weather it is for a day or a month you should do your best to make your presence pleasant to  your host. Here are some things that you should do to make life less stressful for all involved.
1. ALWAYS pick up after yourself and your children
     Don't allow your children to trash someone's house and then expect them to clean up after you or them.
2. ALWAYS thank them for a meal weither prepared or purchased.
     Some host's go through a lot of trouble to make sure you are fed well. Showing your appreciation is paramount! It's RUDE to just assume that you are entitled to be fed.
3. NEVER assume that you should just cook for yourself in another woman's kitchen!
4. ALWAYS offer to do the dishes when someone has cooked for you.
    It makes the hostests burden lighter by helping her out. ESPECIALLY if you have been in the home a while!
5. ALWAYS ASK before using someone's computer! Don't sneak around after the owners are asleep and get online. It's RUDE!
6. Don't get a attitude when you are asked NOT to do/watch something the host doesn't want their child(ren) exposed to.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

When guests outstay their welcome.....

I'm sooo tired of all the noise in my house. My mother and sister have become squatters and I'm afraid to tell them that I can't deal with them for much longer because I'm stressing. My mother laughs at everything but I despise living with my younger sister. She is rude and she is disrespectful. She doesn't do anything around the house really and I HATE having the tv on all the time. It seldom gets turned off and she watches the stupidest things. I am putting my foot down about the crap that is being watched around my child.

I really don't want them here my house is TOO SMALL and I'm trying to be Godly and loving but it's soooo hard when I don't feel like I'm respected all that much. My sister complains about food, she complains about all kinds of things and I'm sick of it!

Please Lord help me with this!